去除广告并且进入视频是默认暂停：

<embedsrc="http://static.youku.com/v/swf/qplayer.swf?VideoIDS=你的视频ID=&isAutoPlay=false&isShowRelatedVideo=false&embedid=-&showAd=0"allowFullScreen="true"quality="high"width="100%"height="650"align="middle"allowScriptAccess="always"type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed>